Do you want to be my best friend

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Elizabeth Roberts had a friend she'd known for 23 years. Roberts had grown up with this friend in a small town in Maine, and while longevity in a relationship often speaks to its strength, in her case, it was quite the opposite -- the older they got, the more the relationship turned toxic.

She said that? Who says that? I would say, 'Oh, she doesn't mean it that way.

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Whether it was the friend making a snide remark about Roberts short stature, or her weight, her clothes, or the guys she dated, their relationship was trademark toxic. Experts tell WebMD what a toxic friendship is made of, and how it can be saved -- if at all. Friendships permeate our lives, having an impact on our careers, marriages, families, children, health, and even our retirement.

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Isaacs explains that a toxic friendship is unsupportive, draining, unrewarding, stifling, unsatisfying, and often unequal. While a toxic friend doesn't have to lay claim to all of these charming characteristics, they do seem to bring on their nasty behavior on a consistent basis, as opposed to those of us who just have a bad day once in a while and take it out on some of the people we care about the most -- our friends. You cross the line from helping a friend in need to helping a friend who is always needy when that friend is abusive, explains Berman.

These s tell you someone is less friend, more foe. And not surprisingly, it's women who are more likely to be toxic than men, according to Berman. So when your gal pal turns sour and stays that way, you need to start taking control of the relationship if there's any hope of saving it. You know you have a problem with someone when your nontoxic friends start telling you, "Every time you hang out with Sue, you're in a bad mood.

But despite these warning s, you don't do anything about it. Because you're trapped. Whether the feeling of entrapment has to do with history -- you've been friends with the person since a young age, like Roberts -- or you feel they have no one else to turn to and you need to stand by them through thick or thin, you need to take action to help your friend, and yourself. Recognize the toxicity. They might not be a toxic friend to others but they are to you.

Take responsibility. By continuing a toxic friendship, you're allowing your friend to hurt you, but you're also hurting yourself. But you can pay the price in one way by having toxic friends.

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Set boundaries. Say no when she asks you for something that you don't want to give, and call her out when she is mean or critical to you. Talk to your nontoxic friends. Suggest professional help. A toxic friend might need professional help at some point to help them get their career, emotions, or family back on track. How do you approach such a touchy subject? Better you make an effort to help your friend address her issues. End the friendship. It's even more important in this kind of context.

In contrast to a love relationship in which you recognize you aren't compatible, this type of relationships is hurting you. It's bad enough when a person has to deal with a toxic friend firsthand but when the toxicity is impacting not you personally, but someone you love, like a spouse or a friend, it can be even harder. How do you handle it? As much as you want to jump in and help, sometimes patience is key. But you need to be honest, be objective, avoid criticism, and listen more than you talk.

And the worst thing you can do is put down the toxic friend. Negativity, explains Figley, will have your loved one defending their toxic friend. The focus should be on how you perceive the situation is impacting your loved one, and how you can help. Roberts' relationship grew increasingly toxic as time went on, and eventually, grew so negative and unbearable that Roberts had to call it quits.

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You can't go from being really good friends with someone, to being not really good friends. Sometimes, you have to totally cut them out, which is what I did. It got to the point where I couldn't forgive her. In every relationship, you need balance, as Roberts demonstrates.

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Each person needs to be happy and feel good about the other. Ultimately, you want to feel good about your friends, not dread their ridicule. It doesn't have to be every minute, but overall there should be some kind of balance in which you feel you are getting your needs met, and so is she. What Is Toxic? How to Handle Toxicity You know you have a problem with someone when your nontoxic friends start telling you, "Every time you hang out with Sue, you're in a bad mood.

Third-Party Toxic It's bad enough when a person has to deal with a toxic friend firsthand but when the toxicity is impacting not you personally, but someone you love, like a spouse or a friend, it can be even harder. Reciprocity, Not Toxicity Roberts' relationship grew increasingly toxic as time went on, and eventually, grew so negative and unbearable that Roberts had to call it quits. Could I have CAD? Missing Teeth?

Do you want to be my best friend

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