I love a great blowjob

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This article is not meant to be rude or offensive in any way. My aim is to help women have close, committed, deep and passionate relationships. Part of achieving this is helping women understand more about menwhat men want and why they want it. I am not condoning casual sex or being promiscuous. I am also not aiming to tell women they have to give their man oral sex. I condone strong, committed and passionate relationships.

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I support healthy relationships where each party does not blame or reject any part of their partner we all have different and sometimes contradicting personalities inside of us. I support relationships where they each understand how the masculine and feminine energies operate.

Just as men sometimes have difficulty understanding women, women have trouble understanding men. Yes, in some cliques and cultures, for example football clubs, men use sex as an ego trip. Men use women, and they take no responsibility for their behaviour with women. You do not want to engage in sexual conduct with men like this. In fact, in most circumstances, you should avoid these groups of men. When it comes to giving blowjobs, keep it inside a committed relationship.

I do acknowledge that to some men and some women, sex is a commodity. And women use sex to get what they want, so casual sex is the norm for women like this, although if you think casual sex is harmless, think again. It is also widely known that the male and female sex drive can be hard to reconcile. This is fair enough, women have crazy hormonal cycles, and find it hard to make time to open up to a man sometimes.

In fact, if you want a man to totally and completely commit to you, then listen up. Provided you engage in physical intercourse after trust and emotional attraction has been established with a manthen engaging in oral sex or any type of sexual intimacy is going to increase the likelihood of getting that deep commitment from a man. Although withholding sex is not always a bad idea in dating until trust and emotional attraction are established. What is the ONE specific emotional trigger within every single man in this world that inspires him to WANT to commit to one woman, want to take care of her, worship her and only her?

Find out what that specific emotional trigger is here. Although, this is definitely a part of why men want oral sex so much, too. The basic reason why men love being given oral sex is because it gives them a feeling of power. Another reason is because a blow job can be one of the ultimate feminine acts of love towards a man. A blow job is a healthy way for a man to access his dark masculine energy — his animalistic desire to dominate and feel powerful.

I think people become sick and twisted and cold and disconnected — not when they do get blow jobs, but when they reject these animalistic drives inside of them for too long. Just as women have a desire deep down to be dominated by the most high value man around — think 50 shades of Gray. Deep down a man has the desire to feel like he has the freedom to dominate his woman every now and then. Yes, even the gentlemen who try not to own their own dark side. The more you reject it, the more you become obsessed with it, and the more our dark sides come out in twisted, pathological ways that hurt others!

Also — this need to dominate is not restricted to men only. Of course, some women have a need to dominate sexually, and some men have a need to be submissive sexually. I doubt that most men have a deep seated need to be dominated by a woman.

Some men do, however, in most cases, men have a need to surrender to pleasure — and that is of course, one other reason why men love blow jobs. This is one quick way for a man to feel more like a man; having a woman give him oral sex. We can really can start to see that from one perspective, giving a blow job can feel like an act of submission. This submissiveness allows you to access your feminine energy in one particular dimension. In which case, I caution you before engaging in sexual acts that are likely to trigger you, and I encourage you to talk about things with your man first.

The visual aspect of submission is also a factor. Of course, the act of giving a man a blow job is a feminine act if she cares about him. This is because a woman has to be in her feminine in order to actually give him truly good oral sex. It is possible to shut down and remove yourself from the experience and not be fully present with your man when you are doing it though. If we emotionally block out what we are doing — even while we are doing it, of course, this takes away the depth to the act.

It also takes away the richness of the feminine submission and it takes away the closeness of the act. In this way, giving a blow job whilst desensitising yourself to it reduces the value of giving a blow job. In order to give a man oral sex, a woman has to be vulnerable to him. In fact, she has to open to him and be comfortable with being vulnerable to him. Of course, some women engage in oral sex out of obligation, or feel that they have to in order to please their manso they do it. In other words, their heart is not in it. If she is not fully vulnerable to him, the man will sense this, although he may not want to accept that she is doing it out of obligation.

The concept of vulnerability goes hand-in-hand with the idea of trust. And of course, if you are comfortable being fully vulnerable to him, then this indicates that you are trusting of him. When you are in a relationship, many men perceive a blow job as the ultimate act of love and acceptance. They really do — it really means that much! If you are able to love the part of him that makes him a man, and take him in fully — then you will own him on another level. If you want to discover deeper secrets about the masculine perspective so that you can get through to any man, connect with him heart to heart, and inspire his deepest loyalty and commitment.

Question…if you were a big tough hairy man, would you be turned on by the site of your woman kneeled in front of you, taking all of you in? Would you love it even more if she looked up at you, and allowed herself to surrender to this moment — to this way — of being with you?

You get to feel like your woman admires you for being a man; the sex you were born as, and the sex you love to be.

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Men subconsciously or consciously see it as part of what makes them a man. It can be hard for a man to go to his guy friends to talk, to connect and to feel loved. The masculine energy is all about doing whatever it takes, at whatever cost, to get the job done. They will be moving on to the next challenge, putting an end to things — and letting go.

It is a nice escape for him. How attractive is that for a woman to do? One has to relax to fully enjoy the benefits of not being in control, and this allows him to surrender to pleasure and connection. We women feel at home and thrive much more on Oxytocin and connection with people or animals, or children.

Not that men cannot connect with others through talking too. The difference is that men can, and often do feel this incredible feeling of connection through blow job and sex when they are in a relationship. This is one of the primary ways in which men can feel connected to, and loved by their woman.

Some women are uncomfortable with the idea of giving their man a blow-job, because they dislike being vulnerable not that they consciously use these words. They hate being asked for it, and they unfortunately start to make their man feel bad about his need for sex. The reality is that men and women are both very much driven by sex. Sex and procreation is behind much of our actions and decisions.

Sexual energy can be used in many other ways to benefit an intimate relationship.

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Women often perceive love in different things than what men do obviously. A woman may perceive love in a man taking the time to listen to her, buy her gifts, take her out, commit to her, protect her and talk to her. He can hug her, caress her, call her, write her letters, make the first move, be the rock and the leader in the relationshipcomplimenting her, etc. Whilst many of these things are important to men too, men also perceive great love in being given oral sex and having sex in general.

And men perceive that a woman loves him if she is sexually and energetically open to him. In fact, oftentimes, just playing with sexual energy or showing a gradual sense of openness to a man, is more than enough! You do not have to give a blow job or have sex with a man in order for a man to feel all of these things that I have just described.

Not at all! A blow job is just an act. However, when you cannot have sex, or when your body truly does not want to open to sex because you need to trust a man more first, or because you need to bond with a man more first — which are all very important things! Then you should absolutely not give a blow job or have sex out of fear of losing him.

You can still give a blow job if you want to give a man a gift without having to have sex. But you should never do it out of fear or to try to keep a man around! There is something else that you can give that is much more valuable…here it is…. What a man really wants deep down inside, is not just the act of sex. A lot of us, men and women, assume that for men, sex and blow jobs are the most important thing.

We mistakenly assume that without sex, men will be unhappy. Well, at the core of it, it is a symbol of value from the woman. It is the hope of future access to a woman and it is a sense that she is open to him, and him only. In this respect, men speak a different language of love, and it is no use telling a man you love him and admire him if you will not open up and give him your feminine energy. You have a menstrual cycle, after all. And your emotions and states change along with the changing cycle. What matters is that you are not giving him the impression that you are closing off to him for good, because this scares him — a lot.

They had to be afraid of it, because if a woman makes a man a cuckold gets pregnant by another man whilst in a relationship with himthen that means a man spent valuable physical and emotional resources on her for nothing. It is, evolutionary speaking — the absolute worst thing that can happen to a man. Is your man serious about committing to you? So always remember, having sex with a man is not as valuable as you being emotionally and sexually open to him.

This means not deliberately threatening the relationship in any way, cutting him off, giving the silent treatment, or giving the cold shoulder and trying to make him feel small. If you are scared of having sex or scared of trusting him, for any reason, at least let him know your feelings. This is worth much more than you closing off, avoiding him or wearing a bunch of masks to cover up your deepest truths. The important thing to take out of this point is that by giving your man oral sex, you are giving him love in the way that he understands it and can receive it.

In order to truly give to someone, you have to understand how they perceive loveand being taken care of. Here are 3 things that make you a high value woman to men. If we just give what is valuable in our own worldwe create more problems, due to our own lack of attunement. This is sometimes very difficult for women to relate to, which is why I am writing this post. I get it. We have a cycle as women and simply may not always be ready.

And ideally, men would accept that reality! We have to look beyond what a man is saying he wants, and look deeper, considering what a man is really asking for. Often, you may find that what a man really wants is to get you to open up and feel. This le to a painful contradiction for a man. See, giving a blow job can be a dark act or it can be a light act.

In other words, it can be loving and spiritual or it can be dark and dirty and liberating. If you do not regularly engage in sex, yet you truly do not reject your own dark sexual energy e. This is because you are free, and by being with you, a man is also free, even sexually free.

Free to be all that he is, sexually, and free to experience the whole realm of who you are and connect to the whole realm of who you are and all he is. That is the ultimate value and gift of freedom to a man. Here is what it means to be dark and light feminine. I am not here to tell you that you must give blow jobs. But I am here to let you know that a blow job is valuable to your man.

But this importance is just here for perspective. It is only something for you to consider. It always helps to be open to understanding what is value to your man in a relationship.

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